"I needed clarity and hope and "Save My Marriage Today" gave me that."
My husband had an affair that lasted several months (and that wasn’t his first). I came to the Save My Marriage website by searching for help on the Internet. I was looking for answers and really needed the anonymity that this web site offered. My marriage was in danger because of my husband’s affair and I couldn’t discuss it with family and friends. I was hurt and ashamed even though I wasn't the cheater!
Other websites asked for huge fees for individual counseling. That was something I could get in my own community. I needed something that was more readily available, that could answer my questions, and give me a place to start. That’s when I found “Save My Marriage Today.”
The biggest benefit I have gained from “Save My Marriage Today” was perspective. There were so many lessons about how to look at what was happening in my life from a different angle. I needed clarity and hope and “Save My Marriage Today” gave me that. They used practical tips and things that I could really work on to be proactive in salvaging my relationship with my husband.
Rhonda K. (Cottageville, SC)
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"We will celebrate our 27th anniversary this year!"
Save My Marriage was very instrumental in helping my husband and myself understand each other by learning to communicate love words, to respect each others space, and to speak up when annoyed and not harbor anger.
We were on the verge of divorce, thinking there was no way to repair the damage. Save My Marriage was a God send and we thank you so very much.
After years of misgivings we are happy that we joined Save My Marriage and we worked it out and stayed together. We will celebrate our 27th anniversary this year!
Fred and Maureen B. (Putnam Valley, New York)
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"We have gone from "I should divorce you" to "Maybe I will keep you around for another 30 years."
My wife and I have been married for 31 years this June. I always said that we lasted so long due to my working out of town for the first 24 years. I had a motorcycle accident that ended my career and forced me into retirement at the age of 50. The first year after that was fine as we got to know each other again. After that we seemed to start getting on each other's nerves as we had not had to have each other around so much.
Two years ago my wife was injured at work when she blew out both knees moving patients in the Extended Care home she worked in. Now both of us are at home full time and really getting on each other's nerves. I saw an ad for Save My Marriage and put in a subscription. I found the articles to be very helpful and insightful, and there were times that I thought there was a spy in our home as the articles were so personally related.
We have gone from "I should divorce you" to "Maybe I will keep you around for another 30 years." Marriage is hard work and if you have the right tools and are willing to work with them, you can make it last forever. I think my wife and I are soul mates and I think I would be completely lost without her. I hate to think where I would be if I had not met her when I did.
Robert and Joanne H. (Powell River, BC, Canada)
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"Save My Marriage put it together for me"
Brett P. (Longmount, CO)
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"After reading your articles we are now in love again..."
Since I began reading the newsletters of Save my marriage today I have actually been able to change and also change my fiance's attitude. We had poor communication skills and we could quickly grow silent to one another and not be able to solve conflicts.
Since I began reading your Save My Marriage Today newsletters I am changed and I have also given him some newsletters to go through. He has also improved. Thanks so much for your advice and help! Our relationship has made some great breakthroughs and we are soon getting married!
May God bless you for what you are doing. Through your newsletters we realized we were actually too busy to make time for one another. The only thing we saw was better ways to look for money and make ourselves rich but it did not bring joy to us. After reading your articles we are now in love again and we do as much as we can to create quality time for one another.
Maureen M. (Kakamega, Kenya)
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My wife and I are now going out on dates, laughing, talking and enjoy being around each other again, and for me that is huge.
Save My Marriage Today put it together for me, it made sense and got me to slow down, live in the moment and think about what is really important and how I can achieve it. The weekly bonus emails are great too because they remind me to stay focused and cover new topics I might not have thought about or realized.
It takes work and it’s the biggest thing I’ve ever been through but with the right tools I know I can do it.
Brett P. (Longmount, CO)
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Since I began reading the newsletters of Save my marriage today I have actually been able to change and also change my fiance's attitude. We had poor communication skills and we could quickly grow silent to one another and not be able to solve conflicts.
Since I began reading your Save My Marriage Today newsletters I am changed and I have also given him some newsletters to go through. He has also improved. Thanks so much for your advice and help! Our relationship has made some great breakthroughs and we are soon getting married!
May God bless you for what you are doing. Through your newsletters we realized we were actually too busy to make time for one another. The only thing we saw was better ways to look for money and make ourselves rich but it did not bring joy to us. After reading your articles we are now in love again and we do as much as we can to create quality time for one another.
Maureen M. (Kakamega, Kenya)
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